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Wednesday, November 11, 2009

is anyone still reading?

Haven't been on xanga since my last entry. No idea why I decided to go back and find lyrics to a couple songs only available on my subscription list.

I wonder: has facebook killed blogging? respond if you read this.


Sunday, March 22, 2009

I just got a phone call from a good friend and former coworker. I say former, but I didn't know it was former until he called. He told me "I am embarking on a great journey, and leaving everything behind." I actually believed even from that moment that he was serious, which with some friends I might have assumed they were just using joking language to talk about something else. But I've known for a long time that he's been struggling with wondering what God had for him to do.

This guy's been a really really good friend for a couple years. I'm really not sure how I would have survived the strain I experienced when I was dating my ex-boyfriend if he hadn't been there to talk to whenever I was going to fall apart at work. When I first became engaged to Tony, he was one of the first people I called - even though I knew I had almost no battery on my phone, I wanted him to know.

I am glad for him. But I wish it hadn't been quite so sudden. I would have liked to have had a chance to say goodbye, to have one last hug. But when he called me, he was already on the road.

I'm not very good at missing people - but I will miss this friend.


Tuesday, October 14, 2008

And I'd concluded that air travel was boring.

I flew home from L.A., I guess by now it was about a month ago. cheaptickets.com - direct from L.A. to Atlanta for $150. Not a bad deal, especially considering that my train out there (also from Atlanta) was over $200, and took four days.

Still, by half an hour into the flight I decided that air travel was incredibly boring. By Greyhound, you can see the country pass by, meet all kind of interesting people, stretch your legs every few hours - it's a fascinating experience, the journey is an adventure in itself. Amtrak has unsurpassed scenery (passing over one canyon I heard a couple other passengers just gasping and commenting "that really makes you believe in God and creation, doesn't it?"), the option of a luxury meal in the dining car, the freedom to stay on the train during stops any time you want to, and a chance to walk around freely and mingle with other passengers from all over (I played some killer Uno just before arriving).

By Airtran, the windows are small, and by my seat, non-existent. You can't even feel any motion except on takeoff, the seats are small and you can't even have stuff on your lap, it's got to be tucked away. For all it felt like, I could have just been sitting in a room. And I'd already read all the books I had with me about twenty times during my three months in L.A., so rereading anything, even a Miss Marple, was kind of just to kill time, not to enjoy a good book for the three hundredth time. So I was a little bit on the bored side. Until...

 

"Attention passengers, we have a medical emergency, if there are any medical personnel aboard, please make yourselves known. Any doctors, nurses, paramedics, EMTS..."

Actually, I'm not really sure how it was worded. I was too busy listening for "EMT" ready to jump out of my seat if I could be useful. Terrible to say, but I was afraid that there would be a doctor, or a paramedic, or anyone with more experience so I would be stuck on the sidelines - I was afraid I didn't count, and was so glad when they said "EMT."

I went to the back of the airplane, and found the flight attendants with a woman who was saying that her mother had a "twist" in her face. As she described the symptoms (her mother was in the restroom), I realized that this could be really serious - everything she was describing lined up with a possible stroke - and I knew if it really was a stroke we had a three hour window of opportunity to get her to a hospital and treated before the effects became permanent. There was another passenger who responded, a nurse. At first I felt nervous and unsure - I knew that nurses have more training so she probably outranked me, so I figured she had a better right than I did to provide care. But she was a neo-natal nurse, unaccustomed to strokes, so she told me quite plainly that I had the training needed and I should take charge. I felt a pretty awesome responsibility as I realized that based on my evaluation of this woman's condition, we could land that plane right then. No pressure, right?

A couple minutes later she came out of the bathroom, and I was able to get a feel for her condition. I asked her the standard questions I've been taught to ask, had her close her eyes and hold her arms up in front of her, asked her to smile for me, asked her to repeat a common phrase, and squeeze both my hands at the same time. She had little to no difficulty - clearly a stable patient. We got vital signs, and then the captain was on the radio with medlink on the ground, and they wanted to talk to me. Well, they wanted our findings anyway - I figured it'd be easiest if I just talked to them instead of trying to explain my notes to the flight attendant so he could pass them on... I took a little longer than I should have if I were calling in to the hospital from an ambulance (that was part of my training too), probably a two minute report when we're supposed to limit radio air time to about thirty seconds at a shot. Oh well. The doctor said to give her a single asperin, have her lay down, and keep monitering her condition. If she deteriorated, to give her oxygen. By then, it was a relief to pass the responsibility for the decision to the doctor and just follow his orders.

So we spent the last hour and a half of the flight making her comfortable (the floor was hard and the AC was kind of high, it was a challenge but we finally got enough padding and air pillows where she was comfortable and warm), and collecting information, and keeping an eye on her vital signs and her level of consciousness. This lady was the epitome of a stable patient. She was alert and oriented, could give us more information on her medical history than either her daughter or daughter-in-law, which is fairly unusual in elderly patients, couldn't hear very well but well enough, her vitals stayed within normal limits... we checked them every fifteen minutes and wrote them down - since she was stable, I didn't feel the slightest bit guilty about enjoying myself.

Eventually we landed - they rearranged our seats so the nurse and I could sit up front with her (well, as close to the front as we could in coach - I don't think any of the people in business class were willing to give up their seats), the flight attendants kept a check on my carry-on so I could get to it easily (then I forgot and got caught up with the paramedics so I didn't after all and one of them brought it out for me) - I even got a window seat where I could see out, though I was busy with taking one last set of vitals so I didn't actually get to see out. oh well.

We deplaned first, met by paramedics from the fire department, and headed out to the lobby. The nurse had to run to catch her connecting flight, and I stayed and made my report. It was really cool - they were impressed at the notes I'd taken, the vitals we'd gotten - one of them pulled me aside and asked my evaluation. I said possible TIA, self-corrected, and he said that would be his as well. I mentioned the asperin we'd given per med control - he asked "which doctor?" I said medlink, and he asked "Witch doctor?" and asked "when do you give an asperin to a possible stroke patient?" That's a common joke among medics whenever a doctor orders treatment that could be wrong. I should have questioned that order - there are two kinds of strokes, you can't tell the difference in the field, and the treament for one kind would make the other kind worse. oh well.

 

Then her daughter-in-law and I headed for baggage claim - her to pick up their luggage, me to (finally) meet my boyfriend (now my fiance). We talked, exchanged phone numbers, she thanked me profusely (I felt selfish accepting them - I was bored anyway)... then we got to the top of the escalator.

It was like a movie. He looked up and caught my eye. Suddenly everything else lost focus. I sort of saw other people passing by, like extras you ignore. I could almost imagine the ADs directing them to walk past the camera, pause and go again to provide the bustle of a crowded airport for the touching reunion scene. Odd thoughts, I know, for someone laying eyes on the guy who's in love with her for the first time since we started dating. And then he wrapped his arms around me and just held on. The lady was telling him "you've got a really great girl here, you're a really lucky guy." and he just said "I know," and didn't let go. He held me the entire drive back to Chattanooga.

 

epilogue: The next day the daughter-in-law called me, told me that they were keeping her in hospital for just a few more tests and evaluation, but she was staying alert, in really good condition. A little later she called again to say they'd released her from the hospital and the family was coming to Chattanooga to make their wedding they were traveling for after all. About a week later, I got a call from the other daughter, thanking me for my care of her mother. And another wekk or so later, the lady herself wrote to me her thanks. She was in fact diagnosed with a small stroke for which she was prescribed an asperin a day, but is in very good health otherwise. So all is well (except I guess for the medical bills). Thank God for an eventful but safe flight.


Saturday, October 11, 2008

I haven't just written in a while.

In some ways, it's because I find myself at a loss for words - in other ways, I have so many words, I'm almost afraid to start pouring them out. Everything that's going on or has gone on in my life recently has been rather too big for words. Dreams coming true, and becoming ordinary life - I'm not sure how well I actually like that - if the dreams become ordinary, what's left to dream of?

For years and years, I dreamed of going to Los Angeles, of working in film, or at least of learning how to be a director and making friends with famous people - or at least people who had the skills to make good movies.

and now?

Three months in Los Angeles. I know the city well now - not all of it, but a significant portion. I can get around better than many people who've lived there for years, because I depended not on a GPS, but on the Not For Tourist's guide a friend gave me, and my memory. Lost tourists frequently stopped me for directions - and all but twice I knew or could bluff exactly what to tell them.

I've talked with the "characters" on Hollywood Blvd by the Chinese Theater, walked a couple of university students from Wales to the CBS studios and had a great inter-cultural exchange. I got to work as an extra along-side Danny DeVito, and went to church with Raquel Welch.

I took an awesome class at UCLA extension in directing actors (my main weakness when I was film club president), working with a terrific director who I know can get the best out of anyone, even newbies. Actually, we only had him the last half of the class because our previous insturctor got a call saying "come work on Lost with us - but you have to move to Hawaii for seven months."

I found an incredible church in Agoura Hills - the best church I found out there, and the others I was so careful in my decisionmaking. And I found it by looking at googlemaps for churches within walking distance from my house.

God provided amazingly for me. I left for L.A. with a one-way ticket and less than a thousand dollars in savings, knowing almost no one. I earned less than two hundred dollars in the three months I stayed there. And somehow, when I came home - I still have over three hundred in savings, am richer by nearly a dozen friends I'll invite to my wedding - and significant dental work that I had been putting off for years because I couldn't afford it. Including a root canal.

 

I should sit back and reflect more often. And I will. But for now...

God is great, God is good. Now we thank Him for everything, because food is just a tiny part of it.

 

edit: oh yeah - and I came home and got engaged. So I'm getting married in April.


Thursday, August 14, 2008

It's always sunny... and I met Danny DeVito

Well, it is always sunny in L.A. (though I was thrilled to experience about thirty seconds of rain this afternoon - maybe Agoura Hills has a little more weather than the rest of the city?). But actually, supposedly It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, and I was hired as an extra for a flashback scene to 1776 (I think that particular episode will air in December - it's going to be the twelfth episode of the season, and the new season will start airing I think they said September 12).

I went into the shoot knowing absolutely nothing about the show, except what an actor friend of mine told me briefly, which made me aware that this isn't exactly a show I'm going to be telling all my friends to go out and watch in order to see me walking around in dusty "eighteenth century" clothing. So I wasn't exactly expecting to meet anyone famous. It didn't even shoot at one of the major studios. One of my friends had been working on Pushing Daisies as an AD, which shoots at Warner Brothers - so I wasn't expecting anything but a decently fun day and a paycheck.

Several of my fellow extras decided to befriend me, especially once they learned it was my first ever background work. One took about a million pictures throughout the course of the day, and got my address so he can mail them to me. I was writing a letter to my boyfriend and mentioned a one-eyed cat that comes around the studio - so I went outside and the cat was there - I played with her, picked her up, pet her, held her. One of the crew came up and pet her over my shoulder - the cat's name is Lacy because we were at Lacy Street Studios, and had been there as long as anyone can remember, at least ten years. And all the time I was sort of hoping that my fellow extra might take a picture of me with the cat. I probably should have just asked him to, he never did.

While I was playing with the cat, an actor came out, and the costumers were working on adjusting his costume. They wanted to make sure his vest fit before they got it all dirty, had to punch another hole in his belt because it didn't fit... I watched the costume work because I thought it was pretty interesting - then I let the cat go and walked back inside to finish my letter.

A few minutes later the other extra came up by me and commented as he went by. "You were standing right next to Danny DeVito - I wish I'd been faster with my camera, I would have gotten a picture of you with him."

He never did get a picture of me with the star - but I did get to be in a scene with him, and from what I could gather about where the cameras were placed and what some of the ADs were saying, I'll actually be pretty prominent in the foreground - if they keep the forty seconds of background before the scene started (which who knows if they will or not), there's even a fairly significant shot of me and another girl reacting to his obnoxiousness as we cross the marketplace in search of whatever we're shopping for.

It was definitely a fun day. Even if we did wrap by 4:00.



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